Your complete guide to the groom — his suit, his style, and his big day.

Your complete guide to the groom — his suit, his style, and his big day.

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Best Cufflinks & Tie Bars for the Modern Groom

A ranked edit of real cufflinks and tie bars across every budget — from The Tie Bar's engravable basics to Tiffany and Cartier heirlooms — with the keepsake picks worth keeping.

An editorial flat lay of grooms' cufflinks and a silver tie bar arranged on a folded white dress shirt with a navy silk tie — polished silver round cufflinks, gold textured pairs, and an engravable monogram set
Illustration: Groom Atlas

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The quick verdict

A ranked edit of real cufflinks and tie bars across every budget — from The Tie Bar's engravable basics to Tiffany and Cartier heirlooms — with the keepsake picks worth keeping.

Best overall
The Tie Bar Cufflinks & Tie Bar — Engravable silver and matching tie bars from around $20–$40 photograph beautifully, suit any suit or tux, and are the easiest place to add a date — the most sensible pick for the great majority of grooms.
Best value
Cufflinks Depot Engravable Role Sets — Personalized 'Groom' and 'Best Man' sets from around $50, plus two-tone gold-plate engravable pairs at ~$175 — meaningful personalization at a mid-range price that no rented look can match.
Best for An heirloom to hand down
Tiffany & Co. Knot Cufflinks — Sterling silver craftsmanship and a timeless knot motif that takes engraving cleanly — the piece a groom keeps and a son or grandson eventually wears.

How we evaluated

Every option in this ranking was evaluated against four criteria drawn from real menswear and bridal-styling guidance: appropriateness to wedding formality (does it suit a French-cuff shirt and the day's dress code), keepsake and personalization potential (can it be engraved, monogrammed, or dated), value relative to its tier, and metal-matching versatility. Prices were checked against official brand and retailer pages and The Knot's wedding-cufflinks guide as of June 2026; luxury figures are estimated retail anchors. No brand paid for placement; an honest weakness is listed for every option.

  • Wedding-formality fit. Whether the piece suits a French-cuff shirt and the day's dress code — from a casual daytime suit to a formal black-tie tuxedo — and photographs cleanly at close range.
  • Keepsake & personalization potential. Engravable surfaces, monogramming, role labeling, and materials that age well are weighted positively, since the best groom's cufflinks double as a lasting keepsake or groomsman gift.
  • Value within tier. Price-to-quality relative to the option's market position — accessible, mid-range, personalized keepsake, or heirloom — rather than across tiers.
  • Metal-matching versatility. How easily the piece coordinates with a tie bar, watch, and belt buckle in a single metal family, since cohesion is the mark of a considered look.

Rating scale: 1–5 in 0.5 increments. 5.0 = the benchmark for its tier on fit, keepsake potential, value, and versatility. 4.0–4.5 = excellent with a minor trade-off. 3.0–3.5 = good in the right context. Below 3.0 = a specialized or compromised pick.

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At a glance

Best Cufflinks & Tie Bars for the Modern Groom (2026) — quick comparison
# Name Rating Best for Pricing
1 The Tie Bar — Cufflinks & Matching Tie Bars 5.0 Most grooms — especially anyone in a rented tux, coordinating groomsmen, or buying their first real pair of cufflinks ~$20–$40
2 Cufflinks Depot — Engravable 'Groom' & 'Best Man' Sets 4.5 Grooms who want meaningful personalization — engraved or labeled — without stepping up to a luxury-house budget, and brides coordinating the full party ~$50–$315
3 Cufflinks.com (Cufflinks, Inc.) — Color & Novelty 4.0 Grooms who want personality, color, or a personal-interest theme, and couples sourcing coordinated wedding-party gifts in one place ~$49–$175+
4 Etsy Personalized — Kingsley Leather & Bey-Berk Monogram 4.0 Grooms and couples who want a deeply personal, engravable keepsake for a daytime or rustic wedding, and standout groomsman gifts ~$21–$71
5 Tiffany & Co. — Knot & Sterling Cufflinks 4.5 Grooms who want a true heirloom to hand down, and couples treating the cufflinks as a lasting keepsake or significant gift ~$400–$800
6 Cartier — Lacquer & Gold Dress Cufflinks 4.0 Grooms making a deliberate legacy purchase — a collector's heirloom chosen with the same care as a fine watch ~$500+
#4

Etsy Personalized — Kingsley Leather & Bey-Berk Monogram

The keepsake built to be worn again — full-grain leather and monogram pairs personalized for the day and every anniversary after it.

4.0

If the goal is a piece he opens on the morning of the wedding and keeps, the personalized Etsy and boutique tier is built precisely for that intention. Kingsley Leather's personalized cufflinks, at around $71, pair full-grain leather faces with durable stainless-steel hardware and are explicitly framed to look as good on future anniversaries as they do on the wedding day — a softer, warmer alternative to cold metal that suits a relaxed or rustic celebration. The Bey-Berk monogrammed initial set takes the more traditional route: engraved cufflinks paired with a matching monogrammed money clip, a combination that has become a groomsman-gift staple precisely because the recipient uses the money clip long after the wedding. What unites this tier is personalization as the whole point — a date, a set of initials, a short message hidden on the back — which is exactly what turns an accessory into a keepsake. The honest caveats are the medium itself: Etsy quality varies by maker, so read reviews and confirm production and shipping timelines well before the wedding week, and leather is less formal than metal, so it suits a daytime or rustic look better than black tie. Chosen carefully from a well-reviewed shop, though, this is the most personal entry in the edit.

Strengths

  • Personalization is the entire premise — dates, initials, and hidden messages turn the pair into a genuine keepsake
  • Leather pairs (~$71) offer a warm, distinctive alternative to metal for relaxed and rustic weddings
  • Monogram cufflink-and-money-clip sets are a proven groomsman gift the recipient keeps using long after the day

Weaknesses

  • Marketplace quality and lead times vary by maker — read reviews and confirm shipping well before the wedding week; leather suits daytime over black tie
Best for
Grooms and couples who want a deeply personal, engravable keepsake for a daytime or rustic wedding, and standout groomsman gifts
Pricing
~$21–$71

Source: The Knot — 17 Best Wedding Cufflinks · Visit Etsy Personalized — Kingsley Leather & Bey-Berk Monogram

Frequently asked

Does my groom need cufflinks for the wedding?

It depends on his shirt. A French-cuff (double-cuff) shirt has no buttons at the wrist — it is designed to close with cufflinks, so if his shirt has those folded-back cuffs, cufflinks are required rather than optional. A standard barrel-cuff shirt with buttons does not need them. Many grooms choose a French cuff on purpose precisely so they can wear a meaningful or engraved pair. As The Knot's wedding-cufflinks guide notes, the right pair sets a groom apart and, when engraved, doubles as a keepsake or a groomsman gift. If he is renting a tuxedo, check whether the shirt provided is French-cuff and whether cufflinks are included, and have a pair ready either way.

How wide should a tie bar be, and where does it go?

A tie bar should span about three-quarters — roughly 70 to 80 percent — of the tie's width. Never let it cover the full width, and never use one that reaches only half or less. A regular tie around 3.25 inches pairs with a bar of about 1.75 to 2.25 inches; a skinny tie needs a narrower bar. Position it between the third and fourth shirt buttons, about one button below the top of the breast pocket so the jacket does not hide it, and clip it through both the tie and the shirt placket so it actually holds the tie flat. Both The Tie Bar and Gentleman's Gazette agree on these proportions and placement.

What are the best budget cufflinks for a groom?

The Tie Bar is the strongest accessible option, with cufflinks largely in the $20 to $40 range — including a clean Textured Sweep Gold pair around $20 and a square silver pair that takes engraving well. For a rented tuxedo or a suit worn once, this is the sensible tier: the pieces photograph beautifully at close range and there is no reason to spend heirloom money on a one-time look. Etsy makers such as Kingsley Leather offer personalized pairs from around $21 to $71 if you want something engraved on a budget. The honest trade-off at this price is materials — these are plated or base-metal rather than solid sterling — so choose this tier for the day and the gift, and step up to Tiffany or Cartier only if you specifically want an heirloom.

Are engraved or personalized cufflinks worth it?

Yes, if the goal is a keepsake rather than a one-day accessory. Engraving a date, a set of initials, or a short hidden message is exactly what turns a pair of cufflinks into something he keeps and wears again on anniversaries. Cufflinks Depot offers labeled 'Groom' and 'Best Man' sets from around $50 and gold-plate-over-sterling engravable pairs near $175; Etsy's Kingsley Leather and Bey-Berk monogram sets personalize for under $75; and Tiffany & Co. itself recommends engraved cufflinks as a groom or groom's-party gift. Choose a flat-surfaced, plain style over a busy novelty design for engraving, since the clean shapes age more gracefully. Confirm any engraving and shipping timelines well before the wedding week, as personalization adds production time.

What makes a good groomsman cufflink gift?

The best groomsman cufflinks are personalized and useful beyond the wedding. A monogrammed initial set — such as Bey-Berk's, which pairs engraved cufflinks with a matching money clip — works because the recipient keeps using the money clip long after the day. Cufflinks Depot's labeled 'Best Man' set adds a warm, specific touch in the getting-ready photographs, and Cufflinks.com maintains a dedicated Wedding Party Gifts collection of cufflinks, tie clips, and pins for sourcing the whole party at once. Aim for a single metal family so the groomsmen coordinate in photographs, and consider engraving each man's initials. Budget of roughly $30 to $75 per set strikes the right balance between thoughtful and practical for most weddings.

Should the cufflinks match the tie bar and watch?

Yes — metal cohesion is the mark of a considered look. The cufflinks, tie bar, watch, and belt buckle should all read in the same metal family: silver with silver, gold with gold, and gunmetal with gunmetal. Mixing a gold watch with silver cufflinks and a black tie bar reads as accidental rather than relaxed. The simplest path is to buy the cufflinks and tie bar together from one source in one finish — The Tie Bar, for instance, sells matching cufflinks and tie bars in the same metals — and then choose the watch to match. If his everyday watch is a fixed color, let that lead and select the cufflinks and tie bar to agree with it. For black tie, a slim pair of silver or onyx studs and links is the classic, most cohesive choice.

Can he wear a tie bar with a tuxedo or black tie?

Usually not, and here is why. Black tie traditionally pairs a tuxedo with a bow tie, and a bow tie leaves nothing for a tie bar to clip — so the tie bar simply has no role in a true black-tie look. Where the tie bar belongs is with a long necktie at a daytime, semi-formal, or business-formal wedding, where it keeps the tie sitting flat and adds a quiet, polished detail. If he is wearing a tuxedo with a long tie rather than a bow tie — a more modern, less formal choice — a slim silver tie bar is appropriate and should still follow the three-quarter-width and third-to-fourth-button placement rules. With a waistcoat or cummerbund covering the tie, skip the bar entirely; the layer already does its job.